Do you really want to help? Here are a few of the “Best” things you can say to
your HCV-Positive friend:
1. “I love you!”
2. “I Care”
3. “You’re not alone in this”
4. “I’m not going to leave/abandon you”
5. “Do you want a hug?”
6. “Don’t say anything, just hold my hand and listen.”
7. “I’m sorry you feel so bad. I am not going to leave you. I am going to
take care of myself so you don’t need to worry that your pain might hurt
me.”
8. “I listen to you talk about it, and I can’t imagine what it’s like for
you. I just can’t imagine how hard it must be.”
9. “If you need a friend.....” (and mean it)
10. “Is there anything I can do to help?” (and mean it)
11. “I am going food shopping tomorrow. Give me your list and I will pick
up everything for you and bring it home to you and put it away.”
12. “I don't care if you get tired and cranky. I love you and spending time
with you is still fun.”
13. “I will be over in half an hour with ( you put it in)dinner, a video,
and then I will leave so you don't have to entertain me.”
14. “It’s okay, you don't have to be brave for me. Let me be the strong one
for a while.”
15. “It is a gift to me that you permit me to help and support you. I know how hard it is for you to ask for help.”
